Classy modern mother of the bride dresses

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As wedding style says no to same-same traditionalism, one thing we've noticed is that many mums of brides and grooms are still condemned to wear Mother of the Bride dresses that they wouldn't normally be seen dead in. You know the ones we're talking about, the ruched shiny taffeta two-pieces and the fluffy fascinators. But we say, enough is enough! So we went in search of beautiful outfits that are elegant, modern and properly stylish... and we found them! We've rounded up over 50 gorgeous Mother of the Bride or Groom dresses and outfits that will inspire your look and help you (or your mum) feel like a superstar!

Ever noticed Mother of the Bride dresses are always advertised by six foot tall models who are in their 30s? Pretty frustrating, right? Our round-up features real mums with great style, and gorgeous ladies we love, and who you can then follow on social media, so you can get inspiration that you can really use! Just choose a few favourites, and take them with you on your shopping trip or to a dressmaker. But first up, our top tips for rocking a fab look on your son or daughter's big day...

Tips for Finding Your Mother of the Bride or Groom Style

  • While we'll always have a place in our hearts for a dress coat and hat combo (as you know, we're shameless royal watchers!), if that's not your natural style, you don't need to wear it just because your son or daughter is getting married. Mother of the bride or groom style has evolved, and these days, long dresses, bare shoulders, jumpsuits, and separates are all perfectly acceptable.
  • In this age of Instagram, many of us look to 'influencers' for style ideas, and just because you might be over 50, doesn't mean you can't take inspiration from social media. Whether it's Irish Insta stars like Vogue Williams' mum Sandra Wilson or mature supermodels like Maye Musk, there are lots of women online of all styles, shapes, sizes and ages, dressing beautifully and ready to inspire your own ensemble. Find someone you love and let them guide your look.
  • Look to the stars too. The red carpet is a great place to find style inspiration for an event as important as your son or daughter's wedding. Meryl Streep, Helen Mirren, Susan Sarandon, Oprah, Anna Wintour, Viola Davis, Joanna Lumley - fierce, stylish, stars over 50 are plentiful, so just pick someone whose style you resonate with.
  • There are no 'rules' for mothers of the bride or groom other than try not to wear anything that outshines the newlyweds. If the couple have a colour palette to their wedding, it's nice to keep your outfit as close to the tones as possible (without dressing the same as the bridesmaids!).
  • While we'd tend to advise mums against wearing anything too loud, bright or eccentric, if that's your go-to personal style then you should certainly reflect it in your wedding day outfit - you want to look and feel like your yourself!
  • Dress comfortably, wear or bring flat shoes if you find heels painful, and don't wear anything that means you'll be too restricted to eat or dance!
  • Invest in good underwear, if you're hoping to create a particular silhouette with your look, the right bra and shapewear will make all the difference! If your outfit doesn't fit quite right, professional tailoring can work magic too!
  • Talk to the other mum. If the couple are lucky enough to have both mums attending the wedding, it's not a bad idea to check in with the other matriarch of the family or liaise through your son or daughter to make sure you're not dressed too alike!
  • Get your hair and makeup done. Nails, tan, lashes, do whatever you want to do to make you feel like a million bucks! It might not be your big day, that that doesn't mean you can't indulge in a little pampering and feel like a star!
  • Not sure where to look for a mother of the bride outfit? Our essential list of shops and designers is a great place to start! Don't be afraid to stray from traditional boutiques and dressmakers - bridesmaid dresses, high street options, and department stories are great places to go to for modern style.

Gorgeous Mother of the Bride or Groom Style Inspiration

Click here for our full list of places to find great mother of the bride and groom style in Ireland!

A selection of three mother of the bride dresses that are not frumpy

When it comes to mother of the bride dresses and outfits, there are no hard and fast rules anymore. The only thing you need to have in mind is finding an outfit that makes you feel good. After all, this wedding is a special day for you, too!

For far too long, stereotypical mother of the bride outfits were - let's be honest - rather frumpy, and were designed to conceal rather than to flatter. Anyone looking for mother of the bride dresses that are not frumpy have come to the right place. These figure-flattering mother of the bride dresses are both trendy and age-appropriate.

Being an older wedding guest doesn't mean you have to wear a frumpy mother of the bride dresses and our edit proves just that. From elegant tea-length and long mother of the bride dresses to floral designs and plus size mother of the bride dresses, we've found the MOTB dresses that are far from frumpy and are sure to have you feeling your most confident self on the big day. 

65 Mother of the Bride Dresses That Are Definitely Not Frumpy!

Our edit features beautiful mother of the bride dresses and outfits to suit an array of body shapes, styles and budgets. These looks reference current trends, for a fresh effect, but at the same time they're utterly timeless and very wearable. And let's be honest - they're perfect for the mother of the groom too, right?

  • Short & Midi Mother of the Bride Dresses
  • Long Mother of the Bride Dresses
  • Mother of the Bride Dresses with Jackets
  • Mother of the Bride Trouser Suits & Jumpsuits
  • Monsoon Mother of the Bride Dresses
  • Petite Mother of the Bride Dresses
  • Floral Mother of the Bride Dresses
  • Winter Mother of the Bride Dresses
  • Spring Mother of the Bride Dresses
  • Summer Mother of the Bride Dresses
  • Autumn Mother of the Bride Dresses

Short Mother of the Bride Dresses

1. Sweetheart Lace Bodice Gown - £255, Needle & Thread

Model wearing a blue tulle mother of the bride dress

Needle & Thread's signature tulle and lace designs are ideal for a special occasions and comes in 9 different sizes - the Sweetheart lace dress will take you from day to night and while we adore this soft blue shade, it is also available in candy floss pink. The details are so beautiful and need to be cared for properly - delicate dry clean only!

Sizing: 4 - 20

Pros & Cons: Needle & Thread are committed to being sustainable making this gorgeous dress completely responsibly sourced. As mentioned, it's dry clean only so bear that in mind if you have a few events you'd like to wear it to.

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2. Green Midi Cowl Neck Dress - £198, Reiss

Green midi mother of the bride dress with cowl neck

Emerald green is such a gorgeous colour for a mother of the bride dress and this Reiss design is no exception. The cowl neck is so flattering and the elasticated waist makes for a comfortable wear. There are leg slits to add extra room for movement and we love the cute collar!

Sizing: 4 - 18

Pros & Cons: This mother of the bride dress has pockets - we repeat - pockets! The model wearing this is 5'10 so if you're a shorter mother of the bride, you may want to get the hem adjusted to keep that midi length. 

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3. Lizelle Chiffon Dress With Tie - £250, Gina Bacconi

Navy tie waist mother of the bride dress with flattering semi-sheer floaty sleeves

This simple tie dress that comes in multiple colours embraces an understated elegance that makes it a perfect mother of the bride dress. The chiffon material and fluttering sleeves are fresh and inviting, and you'll get endless compliments on your contemporary dress choice. 

Sizing: 8 - 18

Pros & Cons: This mother of the bride dress is available in navy, blush pink, turquoise and powder blue so you're guaranteed to find a fitting shade. Though this dress is a little plain, you can easily add some accessories if you want a bit more of a sparkle.

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4. Draped Lurex Dress – £329, Maje

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When in doubt, go French - Parisian label Maje has some beautiful mother of the bride dresses, perfect for those who want something chic yet unusual. This lamé mini-pleat dress is divine, with a fitted waist against a flowing pink skirt, it's both modern and trendy making it a great pick for mother of the bride who doesn't want anything frumpy!

Sizing: 6 - 14

Pros & Cons: The loose fitting sleeves give you plenty of movement in this dress, but some may find the hemline a little short. You can always pair with tights for extra coverage.

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5. Bea Embroidered Dress – £149, Phase Eight

Model wearing a light blue short lace mother of the bride dress

The gorgeous Bea dress from Phase Eight is a statement take on classic lace and would look great at your child’s wedding whatever the season. We’re huge fans of the exquisite icy blue shade and handsewn embroidery - it's perfect for a winter wedding and skims the hips for a non-frumpy finish.

Sizing: 6 - 20

Pros & Cons: The lace overlay adds such pretty detail to this mother of the bride dress but it is intricate so you want to be careful not to catch it on any jewellery or accessories. 

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6. Cressida Fit & Flare Dress – £159, Hobbs

Model wearing a cobalt blue midi mother of the bride dress

You can always rely on Hobbs to make contemporary trends timeless, and this cobalt blue design is no exception. The fit-and-flare silhouette is available in sizes 6-20 and is very flattering, with a wonderfully bright colourway - ideal if you're looking for a modern mother of the bride outfit that isn't frumpy at all.

Sizing: 6 - 20

Pros & Cons: Reviewers say this dress is excellent quality and love the fit, although one commented that they found the waistband a little tight fitting so you may want to size up.

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Long Mother of the Bride Dresses

7. Long Embroidered Maxi Dress - £219, Coast

Coast emerald green long mother of the bride dress

Those looking for a long mother of the bride dress that has plenty of detail will love this Coast maxi dress. The embroidery is just exquisite and the fitted bodice means it won't look or feel frumpy. If green isn't your style but you love the detail, this mother of the bride dress is also available in nude. 

Sizing: 6 - 18

Pros & Cons: The design and detail on this mother of the bride dress is so unique, you will be showered with compliments. Because of the stunning embroidery, this dress is hand wash only - a caveat that's totally worth it in our opinion. 

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8. V-Neck Embroidered Maxi Dress - £219, Coast

Burgundy V-neck embellished mother of the bride dress

While we're on the subject of beautifully embroidered mother of the bride dresses, we couldn't not share this burgundy maxi dress from Coast. The coloured embroidery complements the burgundy tone beautifully and the sheer long sleeves are an added bonus.

Sizing: 8 - 18

Pros & Cons: Coast VIP members can get this dress on next day delivery making it perfect for a last minute buy. Because of how detailed this mother of the bride dress is, we'd avoid any busy jewellery or accessories - let the dress be the star of the show! 

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9. Emerald Green Cap Sleeve Maxi Dress - £159, Coast

green satin long mother of the bride dress with cap sleeves

Elegant and sophisticated, this forest green long mother of the bride dress is a real stunner. The contrasting panels of fabric give this dress a modern feel and if green isn't your shade, it's also available in lilac and blush pink. It would also make a pretty beautiful green bridesmaid dress.

Sizing: 8 - 18

Pros & Cons: The silhouette of this dress skims the figure making it an ideal choice for those who want to avoid a frumpy mother of the bride dress. There is a scoop back on this dress so you'll either need a backless bra or one that has a low scoop adjustment. 

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10. Tanner Printed Dress - £220, Gina Bacconi 

Purple and black floral long mother of the bride dress

It's all too easy for a bold pattern to look a bit relentless in a long mother of the bride dress. That's why this Gina Bacconi maxi is so clever: the wrap skirt breaks up the pattern, for an overall effect that's fresh, vibrant and full of movement.

Sizing: 10 - 22

Pros & Cons: The wrap shape on this mother of the bride dress is super flattering and can be adjusted to add extra comfort. The bold pattern means accessorising may be tricky - we'd advise pairing this with black heels and clutch for a sophisticated look.

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11. Piper Ombre Maxi Dress - £150, John Lewis

Model wearing a pleated blue ombre mother of the bride maxi dress

This dress from John Lewis is a real showstopper! It's the sort of gown you'd expect to see on the red carpet, worn by a sophisticated celebrity - so it's certainly perfect for playing a starring role as mother of the bride.

Sizing: 6 - 26

Pros & Cons: The ombre finish to this stunning long mother of the bride dress is so trendy and unique - you won't have to worry about anyone showing up in a similar style. John Lewis can deliver this gown in five working days but do offer a click and collect service for those who need the design quicker. 

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12. Delphine Asymmetric Maxi Dress – £298, Reiss

nude satin long mother of the bride dress

Pair this shimmering dress with chic barely-there heels or flats, and you have a contemporary, all-eyes-on-you ensemble that says you're ready to party. You can wear this dress with minimal jewellery as the dress doubles as a statement piece. It would also look striking as a gold bridesmaid dress, if the mother of the bride decided not to go for it...

Sizing: 4 - 18

Pros & Cons: The shimmering fabric on this gown will ensure a super flattering and skimming finish. With a one shoulder mother of the bride dress, you'll need to find a good one shoulder or strapless bra to ensure no undergarments are on show.

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Can the Mother of the Bride Wear a Long Dress?

The mother of the bride can wear a long dress, but it is generally best to steer clear of white or ivory hues for this length to avoid looking like you are wearing a wedding dress. If you're uncertain, check with the bride to ensure your long mother of the bride dress isn't similar to her bridal gown or the bridesmaid dresses. 

Mother of the Bride Dresses with Jackets

13. Notch Neck Midi Dress With Jacket Bodice - £289, Coast

Illusion jacket mother of the bride dress

Not all mother of the bride dresses with jackets have to be bought separately. This embellished midi dress from Coast has a jacket bodice built in so you can have the look and feel of a jacket dress without having to buy two separate pieces. 

Sizing: 8 - 18

Pros & Cons: The embellishment really elevates this look and makes it feel like a really special dress. Having the jacket built in could mean you feel a little warm - we'd recommend wearing this to a winter or autumn wedding. 

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14. Ribbon Detail Jacket Pencil Dress - £299, Coast

Structured jacket dress perfect for mother of the bride

Mother of the bride outfits have never looked better, right? This structured jacket dress from Coast is classic MOTB style goals - all it needs is a stunning fascinator and some simple court shoes and you've got the look sorted. The structure means it's not frumpy at all and it's also available in navy blue if blush pink isn't your thing. 

Sizing: 8 - 18

Pros & Cons: The detailing on the jacket gives it a really formal look - super smart and perfect for a chic mother of the bride look. Due to the nature of pencil skirts, you may feel slightly restricted for movement if you're not used to wearing this silhouette - try moving in it at home before the big day so you can wear it confidently!

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15. Lilac Tuxedo Jacket Dress - £199, Coast

Tuxedo style jacket dress from Coast

If you want the illusion of a mother of the bride dress with a jacket without having to buy two separate pieces, consider a tuxedo midi dress like this style from Coast. You get the formality of a mother of the bride jacket dress, with the comfort and silhouette of a wrap dress - it's a win, win. 

Sizing: 8 - 18

Pros & Cons: The sheen on the satin lining contrasts beautifully with the main fabric on this dress, really elevating the design. Although it's our signature colour here at Hitched, we know purple shades aren't for everyone. Luckily for you, Coast offer this design in six other colours so you have plenty of choice if lilac isn't your thing. 

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16. Mariposa Floral Lace Bodice Dress & Mariposa Occasion Jacket – £130 & £160, Phase Eight

Pink dress with lace bodice and matching pink jacket

The Mariposa jacket looks so romantic with the matching dress, contrasting beautifully with that intricate lace bodice. The shade of pink is perfect - elegant rather than sugary.

Sizing: 6 - 20

Pros & Cons: Being able to buy these as separates means you can wear each of them again with different accessories. Some mothers of the bride may feel nervous about wearing such a pale pastel so if you're unsure, check with the bride. 

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17. Marcella Silk Blend Dress & Jacket – £299 & £199, Hobbs

Model wearing a pink silk blend jacket and dress

Spring and even summer evenings can be chilly in the UK, so choose a style that comes with a jacket, like the Marcella design from Hobbs. The mother of the bride dress with matching jacket features a sparkling neckline and flattering thick waist belt.

Sizing: 6 - 18

Pros & Cons: Looking for a mother of the bride dress that isn't frumpy? The structure on this Marcella design will eliminate all those worries.

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18. Off Shoulder Embellished Pencil Dress – £239, Coast

Model wearing a long sleeved navy and white mother of the bride dress

An effortlessly chic cocktail dress designed for stylish mothers of the bride, the details of this Coast dress are perfectly judged, from the pearl adorned collar to the sash belt. It's available in silver too and will flatter all body types. 

Sizing: 8 - 16

Pros & Cons: This design is a classic mother of the bride look, however any design that veers slightly off the shoulder may leave you feeling a little exposed. However, it's nothing a little body tape can't secure. 

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Mother of the Bride Trouser Suits & Jumpsuits

19. Rosalind Satin Blazer & Trousers - £299 & £199, LK Bennett

Model wearing a blue satin floral mother of the bride trouser suit

Jacquard is a popular choice for mother of the bride outfits, and this icy blue option has put a contemporary twist on the look. What makes this suit so modern is the fact that the fabric features delicate buds and the trousers are fitted. If you've been scouring for mother of the bride dresses that aren't frumpy, consider opting for a sleek suit instead.

Sizing: 6 - 18

Pros & Cons: The sheen on this mother of the bride suit is just gorgeous and looks really expensive, but this style of fabric is unforgiving when it comes to stains so keep away from any messy eaters or red wine drinkers! 

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20. Bridie Frill Bodice Wide Leg Jumpsuit - £129, Phase Eight

Model wearing a navy wide leg mother of the bride jumpsuit

Phase Eight really are nailing it with their mother of the bride jumpsuits at the moment, and the stylish Bridie is no exception. It's available to buy with matching satin courts and is a great look if you prefer darker colours but don't want to look too sombre at the wedding. 

Sizing: 6 - 20

Pros & Cons: The wide leg will elongate your figure and give your mother of the bride outfit gorgeous movement and the darker colour will fair well against spillages or stains. Some may find this colour too dark for a summer or spring wedding - but in winter, it'll work perfectly. 

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21. Pleated Details Jumpsuit - £59.99, Mango

Model wearing a geometric print mother of the bride jumpsuit

This Mango jumpsuit is such a fresh take on the traditional summery mother of the bride jumpsuits out there, with chic wide-leg trousers and a daring bold print. Pair with statement jewellery or let the jumpsuit do the talking. 

Sizing: XXS - XXL 

Pros & Cons: The bold print isn't for everyone, but as it's so busy, it will distract from any areas you are insecure about. 

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22. Polka Dot Belt Jumpsuit - £49.99, Mango

Model wearing a pink polka dot mother of the bride jumpsuit

Jumpsuits work beautifully for a contemporary-chic mother of the bride look. We love the figure-flattering shape of Mango's satin-style jumpsuit in polka dot pink - from the V-neck to the wide legs, this is such an elegant silhouette.

Sizing: XXS - XXL 

Pros & Cons: This jumpsuit is a gorgeous colour and will complement taller mothers of the bride in particular. The fabric doesn't have any stretch to it so you may want to buy two sizes and decide which one is the best fit. 

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23. Marigot Sequin Tank & Jacket Set & Trousers - £240 & £140, Gina Bacconi 

Model wearing a navy sequin jacket and trouser set

As a softer alternative to a jacket, why not try a this casual cover-up mother of the bride suit? Marigot comes with a glamourous sequin tank and a matching jacket and trousers - perfect for a summer's evening. 

Sizing: S - XL

Pros & Cons: The trousers have an elasticated waist ensuring a comfortable wear that'll see you from morning to evening. This mother of the bride outfit is on the pricier side, but you get three pieces which can all be worn separately giving you plenty of bang for your buck. 

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Monsoon Mother of the Bride Dresses

24. Blue Hattie Embroidered Wrap Dress - £150, Monsoon

Long sleeved embellished Monsoon mother of the bride dress

The detail on this wrap dress from Monsoon is just to die for. The contrast of the sky blue, against the bright and colourful sequins gives this Monsoon mother of the bride dress a super fun feel. 

Sizing: 8 - 24

Pros & cons: The detailing on this dress is exquisite and at just £150, it's pretty reasonable considering the craftsmanship that's gone into it. As with any embroidered dress, you need to be super careful not to damage any of the detail. 

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25. Navy Blue Embellished Tie-Back Dress - £160, Monsoon

Navy blue dobby embellished mother of the bride dress from Monsoon

Another detailed dress and the Yennefer midi from Monsoon is a beauty. The back features a stunning tie-detail which allows for extra adjustments around the bust and we love the slight illusion neckline - so pretty. 

Sizing: 8 - 22

Pros & Cons: This dress is perfect for twirling and dancing all night long. As pretty as the tie back is, it'll be tricky to conceal a bra back strap so you may need to invest in a supportive backless bra. 

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26. Bright Blue Puff Sleeve Tea Dress - £150, Monsoon

Puff sleeve blue monsoon mother of the bride dress

Yes, it's the third blue Monsoon mother of the bride dress in our list - but can you blame us? They're just so good at designing stunning mother of the bride dresses that aren't frumpy. The embroidered stitching on this blue tea dress is so well done and we love the puff sleeves - very on trend. 

Sizing: 8 - 24

Pros & Cons: This dress is hand beaded so you are getting a lot of work for your money. One reviewer commented that the dress was a little tight on the waist so you may want to size up for comfort. 

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27. Tilly Tiered Maxi Dress - £110, Monsoon

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Sparkle like the star you are in Monsoon's tulle Tilly dress. It has a gloriously royal feel to it, without being in any way costume-y. It'll look wonderful alongside a princess wedding dress if that's the style your daughter is going for. 

Sizing: 6 - 22

Pros & Cons: The ruffled skirt adds volume and creates a beautiful mother of the bride silhouette, but some may find the V-neck a little low. 

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28. Large Scale Print Dress - £75, Monsoon

Model wearing a teal large print mother of the bride dress

There's so much to love about this mother of the bride Monsoon dress - where do we start? That figure-flattering silhouette; the unique print; the blouson sleeves - it all adds up to a gorgeous mother of the bride look.

Sizing: S - XXL

Pros & Cons: The tie waist means you can adjust to a fit that is really comfortable to you. The style of this dress may feel a bit casual for a wedding but you can dress it up with accessories and some killer heels to create a more glam look. 

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29. Lacey Embellished Midi Dress - £150, Monsoon

Model wearing a pink embellished mother of the bride dress

Want a mother of the bride dress that's unashamedly pretty? Lacey combines sequin florals, blush pink, and layered mesh detail in a wrap style, all to a bewitching effect.

Sizing: 8 - 24

Pros & Cons: The wrap belt allows you to cinch in your waist and create a fabulous silhouette. The peach colour may wash some skin tones out but we have a great article on wedding fake tan if you need an added glow. 

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Petite Mother of the Bride Dresses

30. Red Velvet Bodycon Dress With Cut Out - £148, Reiss

Red velvet bodycon midi dress in petite

This petite mother of the bride dress from Reiss proves that bodycon can also be age-appropriate. We love the sophistication of the silhouette on this red velvet dress and the cut out is a lovely added detail. 

Sizing: 4 - 16

Pros & Cons: Also available in black, this petite velvet mother of the bride dress is far from frumpy and would perfectly suit a winter wedding as the velvet may be a bit warm for a summer or spring do. 

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31. Navy Blue Zig Zag Midi Dress - £248, Reiss

Petite blue patterned mother of the bride dress from reiss

Reiss are known for their striking prints and the Tanya dress is no exception. The silhouette gives this gown gorgeous movement and the low V-neck is beautifully tailored to sit perfectly on a petite silhouette. 

Sizing: 4 - 16

Pros & Cons: Though designed as a midi dress, this style is also available in regular length which would give a petite mother of the bride the perfect maxi length.

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32. Floral High Neck Midi Dress - £85, Wallis

Model wearing a petite yellow floral mother of the bride dress

This wonderful Wallis dress is part of their collaboration with illustrator Charlotte Hogg. Highlighting floral and feminine prints with trendy shapes of the season, it has been crafted using responsibly-sourced materials so you can feel as good as you'll look. Ideal if you are attending an eco-friendly wedding. 

Sizing: 8 - 18

Pros & Cons: This mother of the bride dress is made in the UK so sustainability-conscious mothers of the bride won't have to stress over their eco-footprint with this online order. The choker neck may feel a little strange if you're not used to that kind of style but it looks gorgeous and is looser than others of that style. 

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33. Animal Wrap Long Sleeve Midi Dress - £69, Wallis

Model wearing an animal print wrap petite mother of the bride dress

Wearing animal print to a wedding can absolutely work if you keep the silhouette of the dress sophisticated. Take this blue wrap long sleeve midi from Wallis - the petite length won't swamp your figure and the print will make you stand out from the crowd.

Sizing: 8 - 18

Pros & Cons: At £69 this mother of the bride dress is a great price and the wrap silhouette is super flattering. Because of the bold print, we'd recommend keeping the accessories simple and neutral. 

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34. Floral Tie Front Midi Dress - £39, Dorothy Perkins

Model wearing a long sleeved purple floral mother of the bride dress

The clever tie on this purple floral dress from Dorothy Perkins will draw the eye down making it a great pick for petite mother of the brides. We love how this model has paired it with matching lilac heels.

Sizing: 6 - 16

Pros & Cons: If you thought £69 was a good price, you'll be seriously impressed with Dorothy Perkins and its incredibly affordable mother of the bride outfits. The design is a little more casual than other mother of the bride outfits but it's perfect for a more intimated, garden wedding. 

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Where to Buy Petite Mother of the Bride Dresses?

Petite mother of the bride dresses can be bought from brands such as Dorothy Perkins and Wallis. If you're under 5'3 a petite collection is perfect as the styles won't swamp your figure and you won't have to get the design altered. 

Floral Mother of the Bride Dresses

35. Black Maxi Floral Wrap Dress - £95, Wallis

Black and coloured floral mother of the bride dress in silk wrap fabric

Stylish and sophisticated, this floral mother of the bride dress is totally wedding worthy. The silk gown from Wallis is a great design if you're after a floral wedding guest that would suit a winter or more formal wedding theme. 

Sizing: 8 - 20

Pros & Cons: Because of the black background, this mother of the bride dress is really easy to accessorise and goes perfectly with black heels and clutch bags. Not all mothers of the bride will feel comfortable in a black-base dress but we've said it once and we'll say it again, you can wear black to a wedding. 

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36. Pleated Mesh Floral Midi Dress - £159, Coast

Floral pleated mother of the bride dress

If you're after a floral mother of the bride dress that has more of a whimsical vibe to it, you'll love this midi dress from Coast. The plisse overlay contrasts beautifully with the satin waist tie and we love the fluttery sleeves. 

Sizing: 8 - 18

Pros & Cons: Pleating involves a fair amount of fabric and some may find this a little swamping. The gorgeous tones are so pretty and would suit nude accessories which are super easy to find on the high street. 

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37. Black and Blue Embroidered Floral Midi Dress - £149, Coast

Puff sleeve lace mother of the bride dress

One of our favourite floral mother of the bride dresses of all time has to be this puff sleeve blue midi dress from Coast. The embroidered lace fabric and stunningly dramatic silhouette are unbeatable.

Sizing: 8 - 18

Pros & Cons: The embroidery, though gorgeous, isn't as intricate as other Coast designs so it's more hard wearing but you will want to be careful not to catch the tulle threading on anything.

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38. Ella Floral Print Dress – £130, Phase Eight

Navy, pink and cream floral dress with high neck

This floral dress is pure elegance, from the delicate print to the on-trend high neck with twist detailing. That waist tie is a lovely finishing touch making this a perfect choice for those looking for a mother of the bride dress that isn't frumpy. All in all, this is a stylish designer-look piece at a high street price point.

Sizing: 6 - 20

Pros & Cons: This pretty mother of the bride dress has an average review rating of 4/5 stars with one reviewer saying it looked even better in person than it did in the pictures. The model wearing this dress is 5'10 so if you're a petite mother of the bride, you can expect more of a midaxi length.

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Can the Mother of the Bride Wear a Floral Dress?

The answer o this is absolutely. To pull off a gorgeous floral mother of the bride dress, you'll want to keep the silhouette simple so as to not end up with a frumpy look. Stick to this rule, the busier the print, the simpler the silhouette should be. 

Winter Mother of the Bride Dresses

39. Trailing Peony Embroidered Midi Dress – £139, Coast

Model wearing a black and white floral mother of the bride dress

Can you wear a black wedding guest dress? As we said before, yes you can! We recommend if you are opting for a darker hue, to lighten the look up with a contrasting print like this monochrome pattern from Coast. It's also available in teal and in sizes 8-18. 

Sizing: 8 - 18 

Pros & Cons: Though we're a fan of black wedding guest dresses, Coast do also sell this mother of the bride gown in forest green for a warmer tone. The flutter sleeves give you arm coverage without having to wear a fitted sleeve which could feel constraining. 

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40. Marr Crepe Knitted Dress - £259, LK Bennett

Model wearing a green knitted mother of the bride dress

Dark green is always a winner for a winter wedding and this knitted dress from LK Bennett will keep you warm while making you look effortlessly cool. The design can be re-worn over the festive period. 

Sizing: 6 - 18

Pros & Cons: The fact it comes with the belt means you can dress this style up or down and you get an accessory for free! Although it's on the higher end of the budget scale, you could re-wear it as a long cardigan for a fancy dinner after the wedding. 

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41. Geo Printed Wrap Midi Dress - £49, Debenhams 

Model wearing a long sleeved geo printed mother of the bride dress

For less than £50 you can get your hands on this geometric print dress from Debenhams. You won't even need accessories to jazz the look up as the pattern has done all the hard work for you! Available in sizes 10-20. 

Sizing: 10 - 20

Pros & Cons: This mother of the bride dress is a bargain and you get free shipping when you spend over £60 so add a pair of nude heels to the basket and you're good to go. As the dress is a warm shade, we'd recommend gold jewellery over silver. 

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42. Ruffle Sleeve Lace Midi Dress - £65, Debenhams 

Model wearing a navy lace mother of the bride dress

If you're really stuck on what to wear, consider this ruffle sleeve lace midi dress from Debenhams. It will flatter all body types and is totally wedding-appropriate. Pair with contrasting white accessories. 

Sizing: 10 - 20

Pros & Cons: This dress is also available in a gorgeous green shade and reviewers say it washes well so re-wearing it is absolutely an option. 

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43. Tailored Buckle Belted Dress - £40, Dorothy Perkins

Model wearing a short blue mother of the bride dress

This beautifully flattering gown is a bargain buy. It looks effortlessly more expensive than its price tag and you'll want to wear it again and again after the big day. We love the tailored style and it has pockets! 

Sizing: 6 - 20

Pros & Cons: This design can be bought in pink or blue to match a bright colour scheme and the belt lets you cinch that waist in. Some may find this a little short for a wedding.

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44. Chiffon Dress - £34.99, H&M

Model wearing a long sleeved blue mother of the bride dress

This bargain buy from H&M is floaty and ethereal so will keep you cool throughout the day. It won't steal your daughter's thunder on the big day but we bet you'll be given lots of compliments. 

Sizing: XS - XXL 

Pros & Cons: The cuff sleeves will keep you warm throughout the day but if you're a mother of the bride who's experiencing a tropical moment (you know what we mean), they unbutton and can be rolled up for a cooler wear. 

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45. Glitter Lace Contrast Midi Dress - £85, Wallis

Model wearing a contrast short black and white lace mother of the bride dress

If glamour is the order of the day, this high-waisted skirt and glittery top illusion dress from Wallis is ideal - just make sure you keep accessories to a minimum or opt for a wedding hat for a sophisticated feel.

Sizing: 8 - 20

Pros & Cons: Black and white isn't everyone's favourite mother of the bride colour palette but you could always choose some coloured accessories to brighten it up. 

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Spring Mother of the Bride Dresses

46. Print Twill Full Skirt Midi Dress - £189, Coast

Model wearing a floral full skirted mother of the bride dress

You can’t go wrong in a statement dress if you’re playing the very important role of mother of the bride. This full-skirt design (sizes 8-18) features a bold floral design as well as flattering pleated details. Pair with neutral accessories and you’ll look so refined, or go for silver for to accentuate the cool tones.

Sizing: 8 - 18

Pros & Cons:  The back of this floral mother of the bride dress has stunning cross-over straps which look amazing, but they aren't adjustable so you'll want to snag a really good fit. 

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47. Sina Cornflower Print Dress - £429, LK Bennett

Model wearing a yellow floral mother of the bride dress

This LK Bennett dress is just beautiful, from the floral pattern to those short flute sleeves. It's the grown-up way to do spring flower prints, so would be ideal if you want to stay sophisticated yet mood-appropriate at a barn or outdoor wedding. 

Sizing: 6 - 18

Pros & Cons: The neck tie gives this modern floral mother of the bride dress a really sweet vintage feel. It is on the higher end of the budget scale - but totally worth it in our opinion. 

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48. Avery Houndstooth Print Dress - £279, LK Bennett

Model wearing a long sleeve pleated houndstooth print mother of the bride dress

If you'd prefer a long sleeve in spring, go for sheer, to keep the look light (and so you don't over-heat!). The Avery dress from LK Bennett is perfect, and comes in a beautifully romantic pale pink.

Sizing: 6 - 18

Pros & Cons: You can also buy this dress in navy or green. The pleated neckline and puff sleeves will particularly suit mothers of the bride who like a chic, trendy look. 

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49. Lace Midi Pencil Dress – £89, Oasis

Model wearing a lace green sleeveless mother of the bride dress

Stand out from the crowd in this divine forest green tailored dress from Oasis. The stunning lace is perfect for the chic mother of the bride who wants something classy and understated but with a hint of drama. Pair with matching verdant accessories for a modern mother of the bride look that isn't frumpy - at all...

Sizing: 6 - 18

Pros & Cons: The thick crochet lace looks super expensive but be careful it doesn't catch on anything as we can imagine this dress snags easily. 

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50. Butterfly Print Midi Dress - £189, Karen Millen

Model wearing a butterfly print navy mother of the bride dress

Fancy a mother of the bride outfit with a difference? This butterfly print dress from Coast is spectacular. We can see it being worn with a show stopping pair of Sophia Webster designer wedding shoes...

Sizing: 6 - 16

Pros & Cons: The ruching is super flattering on any figure but the pattern mat be a bit bold for some. 

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Summer Mother of the Bride Dresses

51. Pink One Shouldered Maxi Dress - £298, Reiss

Pink maxi cape mother of the bride dress

How trendy and chic is this asymmetrical cape dress from Reiss? the hot pink colour is super striking and we love how graceful it is.

Sizing: 4 - 16

Pros & Cons: The floaty silhouette gives you plenty of room for movement and guarantees a comfortable wear all day long. As with any asymmetrical mother of the bride dress, you'll need a multi-way bra to ensure no straps are on show. 

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52. Carrie Midi Lace Dress - £169, Phase Eight

Model wearing a lace pink midi mother of the bride dress

If we had to pick a favourite mother of the bride dress from our edit, this style from Phase Eight would certainly be a contender. The pale pink hue is simply gorgeous and the lace is so romantic. 

Sizing: 6 - 20

Pros & Cons: The zip fastening is concealed which we always appreciate and you get a gorgeous belt as an accessory. The scalloped lace is perfect for a beachy wedding but isn't to everyone's taste. 

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53. Effie Printed Jumpsuit - £130, Phase Eight

Floral printed sleeveless mother of the bride jumpsuit

If you have your eye on a jumpsuit (and we wouldn't blame you - they're pretty and practical), this beauty from Phase Eight is ideal for a summer celebration. We're picturing it being worn while sipping a delicious wedding cocktail! Oh, and don't forget to style with pink accessories. 

Sizing: 6 - 20

Pros & Cons: The model wearing this stunning mother of the bride jumpsuit is 5'9 so taller MOTBs may find this a little short. The waist tie helps to give you a gorgeous shape. 

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54. Chianne Moss Dress - £270, Gina Bacconi

Model wearing an ice blue cowl neck mother of the bride dress

We love the colour of this cowl neck Gina Bacconi dress. It would be a gorgeous look for a beach wedding, or you could dress it up even more through your accessories for a smarter summer celebration.

Sizing: 10 - 22

Pros & Cons: The dress is fully lined so you don't have to worry about anything being see-through. The cowl neckline is so pretty but mothers of the bride who want a younger look may not be a fan. 

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55. Organza Hem & Sleeve Lace Dress – £149, Coast 

Model wearing a pink lace mother of the bride dress

The dream dress for a garden party style wedding, this pink lace beauty from Coast is a flattering midi length and features a lovely mermaid hem. Available in light blue, navy, nude or raspberry. 

Sizing: 8 - 18

Pros & Cons: The deep hue on this mother of the bride dress will really stand out. A fishtail shape may not be the best choice if it's similar to what the bride is wearing - be sure to check to avoid any awkwardness...

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Autumn Mother of the Bride Dresses

56. Floriana Shimmer Dress - £139, Phase Eight

Model wearing an autumn print mother of the bride dress

With its sleek design and puff sleeves, this Phase Eight dress is an absolute find. The vibrant pattern showcased on an almost sculptural silhouette exudes refined sophistication that will look spectacular in wedding photos and on the dance floor.

Sizing: 6 - 26

Pros & Cons: This dress is also available in plus sizes and although zip fastenings usually don't leave much room for adjusting, the wrap silhouette is completely adjustable. 

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57. Adelia Dress - £149, Hobbs

Model wearing a sleeveless plum mother of the bride midi dress

Keep your mother of the bride look simple and sophisticated with this plum Hobbs dress. The rich colour is ideal for Autumn and the design can be dressed up or down depending on how formal the occasion is. Available in sizes 6-20.

Sizing: 6 - 20

Pros & Cons: Reviewers say this dress us super flattering and can also be bought with a matching jacket, but one commented that it is generously cut so they re-ordered the petite version for a shorter finish. 

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58. Pleated Detail Maxi Dress - £89, Wallis

Model wearing a long sleeved hot pink mother of the bride dress

Pleats are such a flattering choice for a mother of the bride dress - as shown with this gorgeous piece from Wallis. We love how this model has given the dress a contemporary upgrade with metallic heels and reckon you should do the same.

Sizing: 8 - 20

Pros & Cons: Shirred dresses are really on trend right now but the shirring finish isn't something that everyone loves. 

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59. Abstract Bias Cut Woven Midi Dress - £169, Karen Millen

Model wearing an abstract print colourful mother of the bride dress

Everything about this ensemble from Coast is spectacular. From the stand-out print, to the unusual cowl neckline, you'll gain lots of style points if you rock this number. Pair with muted accessories if you want to soften the look. 

Sizing: 6 - 16

Pros & Cons: The lightweight viscose crepe fabric that this mother of the bride dress is made from will be super comfy for an all-day wear. Viscose needs to be washed at 30 degrees for the best outcome. 

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What Does the Mother of the Bride Wear?

  • Think in terms of comfort as well as style. If it's a long celebration, you'll want something you'll feel comfortable in for many hours. For the same reason, avoid any fabrics that crease easily. You should also think about what you'll be doing on the wedding day - if you're due to help your son or daughter get ready, or do any last-minute décor set-up, you'll want a mother of the bride outfit you can move in with ease.
  • Consult your child! Ask then if there are any particular colours they’d like you to stick to (or any colours to steer clear of), and find out whether they’d like you to pick up any elements of the bridesmaids' outfits, for a cohesive wedding party look.
  • Chat to the other mother of the bride or groom about your outfit choice – you do not want to turn up in the same dress...
  • Take inspiration from the season and the venue. Summer garden wedding? Pastel shades will look pretty. Modern city winter wedding? Consider a bold colour or something monochromatic.
  • Invest in a good quality outfit. It’ll last you a lifetime and give you a great silhouette.
  • Treat yourself! Have a pampering session and get your hair and makeup done professionally on the morning of the wedding – that way, it’ll last perfectly even when you’re running around after the bride.
  • Don't forget accessories. Whether you're buying new or using jewellery and shoes you already own, the finishing touches will really make a difference to your overall look.

Where to Buy Mother of the Bride Dresses?

You'll find stunning mother of the bride dresses in most high street fashion retailers such as Wallis, Debenhams and Coast. If you're after a formal look, consider brands like LK Bennett, Gina Bacconi and Hobbs as they offer pieces with matching jackets and tailored sets. 

Who Pays for the Mother of the Bride Dress?

Traditionally, the mother of the bride is expected to pay for her own wedding attire, however the bride may offer to cover the cost - especially if they have a set style they want for the wedding. 

Now you’ve chosen your mother of the bride outfit, you’d better refresh your memory on your mother of the bride duties in time for the big day…

When it comes to color choices, navy is the most requested color for mother of the bride dresses. Other popular colors include blush and shades of nude. While white, black and red are to the colors to avoid!

What Colour is the mother of the bride supposed to wear?

Colors like plum, lavender, eggplant, silver, navy and gold are the perfect pick for the mother of the bride dress. This is a universally flattering color combination for bridal parties. Choosing a mother of the bride dress to complement this color theme will be a bit easier.

What the mother of the bride should not wear?

What Color Does the Mother of the Bride Wear? There's not one specific color the mother of the bride should wear. It's generally best to steer clear of white, ivory or champagne hues as to not take attention away from the bride.

How fancy should the mother of the bride be?

Mother of the Bride Dress - Tips Semi-formal and cocktail weddings are more casual and a cocktail-style or tea-length dress may be suitable, while formal white tie and black tie weddings will require a full-length or even floor-length gown. Dressing too sexy might make the couple or other guests feel awkward.